It's Just Ja

Finding My Venue: Ambient + Studio

2011-08-29T00:52:00.006-04:00

Fun Fact: I may have called all of the venues in Atlanta but only viewed one venue.

If you've been following my blog a little, you would know that one of my dearest girlfriends recently got married in November 2010, check out her fabulous dress here. During her wedding preparation, I strolled upon the Ambient + Studios. I contacted the Operations Manager, Jason, around May of last year. I loved the space so much, I tried to live vicariously through my girlfriend but she had her eyes on The Little Garden (which was a lovely venue), so I stored this venue in the back of memory.

Fast forward to the beginning of this year. After my engagement, I started my planning my wedding. Originally, I wanted a rooftop wedding but majority of the wedding venues in Atlanta that had a rooftop came with a hefty price tag aka an onsite caterer. I knew that since I was a DIY bride that was under a strict budget, those venues were way out of my price range. So I looked up several different type of venues; Summerour Studios, King Plow, The Puritan, The Pink Palace...you name it, I looked them up. And again, most of these venues had an onsite or preferred caterer that I just could not afford.

Then I had an aha moment. I remembered the Ambient + Studios! I toured the venue for the first time in January with the fiance. The Ambient is a 10,000 square feet of raw space. I must admit when I first saw the venue, I was overwhelmed but I still could not stop thinking about this venue. It was around April, that I finally made my decision that this was the venue for me but I still had anxieties how to translate this beautiful and empty canvas into MY dream wedding.

images via www.ambientplusstudio.com

My Wedding Journey

2011-08-10T22:47:00.010-04:00

Please forgive me for practically abandoning my blog. Is anyone still reading or following my little space? Well if you are, you are seriously in for a treat! You can officially add my name to the hundreds and hundreds of other personal wedding blogs. I feel like my wedding plans are finally turning out to be such a unique and fun experience that I just felt it was only right to share with the blogasphere (well at least I think so). We have some major catching up to do...so bare with me as I try to juggle work, buying a new house, life and trying to blog. My goal is to post up several postings within the next couple of days! I am so excited! Till then...here are some pictures of my ladies from a photoshoot we had.

Rock & Republic skinnies, Forever 21 blouse, BCBG pumps

HI!!!

2011-07-22T00:39:00.002-04:00

Wow, I have not blogged in FOREVER! I will be updating the site frequently soon. You will not be disappointed!

2011-04-04T22:20:00.002-04:00

Hi blogging world,

Oh how I missed thou! I can finally take a breather (for now). The past couple of weeks have been so hectic (in a good way) and now I can finally settle down a bit. This past weekend my girls threw one of our best friends her bridal shower/bachelorette weekend. It had a Parisian theme and it was uber cute! A post about the weekend will be coming soon.

Can you believe I have less than 6 months to my own wedding and I have nothing! No venue, no dress, no nothing. However, I am not in panic mode yet. I have narrowed down my photogs and have an idea on the "feel" of the wedding but that's about it. I hope to find a venue within the next few weeks or I will be panic mode for sure!

March Already

2011-03-04T01:23:00.003-05:00

Wow, it's March already? I cannot believe it. That means I have 6 months left to plan the perfect wedding. 6 months to plan 3 receptions! As a Nigerian who is marrying an American, I have to celebrate both cultures. I am really psyched but super busy as of late. When I can accurately formulate some thoughts and ideas, I will post an update on the wedding plans. Till then enjoy some pics.

NYE...the night my babe proposed. Celebrating with friends!

At Bluepointe Restaurant - Celebrating life with some fabulous women!

Acting silly with my girl.

At my football themed post-engagement party! How cute is my cake?! It tasted just as good as it looked!

Friday Lovelies: Marchesa 2011 Fall RTW

2011-02-18T16:22:00.006-05:00

My adoration for Marchesa just grew exponentially. Marchesa 2011 Fall line was filled with luxe tulle and delicate laces that will definitely command attention. In a perfect world, I would be walking down the aisle wearing one of their gowns.

{images via zimbio.com}

Engagement Party

2011-02-14T23:47:00.004-05:00

Several weekends ago, some of my fabulous bffs decided to throw me a surprise engagement party! I thought we were getting together for a girls day filled with laughter, girl talk, and Mimosa. Well our day was filled with that but I did not know that it included a basket full of goodies, engagement games, and even a special message from the beau. I don't really have any pictures from the engagement *cough* *cough* but here are some pics from previous engagement parties that I threw for 3 of my girls.

Surprise Engagement Party at Rise Sushi Lounge in Atlanta. This was me wearing my fro which I no longer wear b/c it's too much work. I may get back to that once life slows down a bit (which I highly life will).

Afternoon Tea @ Dr. Bombay's Underwater Tea Party in Decatur, GA.

Wedding Dress Collection: Anthropoligie

2011-02-09T11:12:00.004-05:00

I am sure you all heard that Anthropologie was coming out with a bridal collection, BHLDN. Well Glamour Magazine, got their hands on the goods. What do you think? Honestly, not wowed by the entire line but I do see some faves.

These two are my faves.

{img via Glamour}

Feel Good Friday

2011-02-04T17:00:00.004-05:00

Man, I am seriously hating this weather. Not only is it really cold but it's been raining for the past several days. The type of rain that does not want to go away. Definitely in the mood to be at home in my pajamas watching a movie with the beau. Oh well. This inspiration piece made me smile.

{blanaid}

Video: Mrs. Fabulousity, Kimoa Lee Simmons

2011-02-04T16:26:00.004-05:00

A glimpse inside Kimora Lee Simmons "satellite" closet.

Happy Friday!

Thank You

2011-02-03T12:00:00.004-05:00

I can honestly say I have the best girlfriends ever. I am surrounded by awesome women. From my mother to my baby sister to my incredible group of besties. Good people are hard to come by and when you have great people in your corner, you should be thankful.

With that being said, I want to start mailing random Thank You notes. But you know me, it has to be done in style. Check out some awesome Thank You notes.

1. Crane & Co | 2. Kate Spade Stationery | 3. Vera Wang | 4. Vera Wang | 5. Vera Wang

Diane von Furstenberg Opal Linen

2011-02-01T23:18:00.004-05:00

I remember lusting over the Opal wooden version of these beautes last year but now this? In love...

{images via net-a-porter.com}

Oh no not again

2011-02-01T22:48:00.005-05:00

Man, it is becoming really hard to stay up to date with this blog. I don't know where the time goes; oh yes I do...between the demands at work, planning another wedding, planning my wedding, and being a mother & fiance while trying to work on my business. One of my biggest qualms is being disciplined. I will get online determined to blog and then get caught doing something else until the wee hours of the night. And you know what that means; going to bed super late, then waking up late, then going to work late, then coming home late. Phew! After all of that a woman is tired.

In the beginning when I first started blogging, I posted monthly goals. I think I will get back to doing that. It's already February and I feel like I am losing that drive that I first had at the beginning of the year. So what better way than to hold myself accountable. I missed January but we can try to make this month count. What are some goals you have for this month?

Goals for February

Relationship with God - have morning devotions, buy a study bible, look into volunteering somewhere.
Work on changing bad habits - go to bed by 10 P.M. Wake up by 7 A.M. Be at work by 8:30 A.M.
Fitness - Loss 10 lbs. Start 10 day fruit & veggie detox (mostly). Work out at gym 3xs a week.
Business - Work on logo and design. Make business card and product package for O.
Wedding - Attend Romona Keveza & Lazaro Trunkshow at Bridals by Lori. Check out more venue options. Start marriage counseling! Attend marriage seminar.
Finance - File tax return and continue to maintain budget.
Shopping - Buy heels that are NOT black. Invest in more workout clothes.
Car Maintenance - change breaks, oil change , fix glass, get estimate for repairs.

Wedding Word Clouds

2011-01-15T02:45:00.008-05:00

I am totally in wedding overload lately. During the wedding preparation, these words will be an active part of my wedding vocabulary. So over the coming months, you will see these words come to life in inspiration boards and various other means.

{vintage. budget. burberry. marchesa. rooftop. eclectic. photobooth. jcrew. rustic. stationary. cocktail dresses. burgundy. nigerian. hors d'oeuvres. crates. non-traditional. navy blue. coca cola. burlap. louboutin. mix-n-match. evening. frames. “spray”. chalkboard. gray. fireworks. diy. intimate. native wear. traditions. urban }

Psst...

2011-01-12T00:21:00.006-05:00

I'm getting married! I have been blessed to meet a man who is not only my soul mate but my best friend. 2011 will definitely be a memorable year! With that being said, I hope you don't mind following along in the planning period, AH!

Apologies, this is the only pic I have close up.

eBay Lovely - Leather Mini Dress

2011-01-10T23:15:00.004-05:00

Lately, I have been really drawn to leather pieces. So how divine is this 1980's blue leather bandage dress? With a dress like this, it will definitely do all the talking! Plus check out the back detailing. Check it out here.

{ vtg 80s NORTH BEACH leather MILITARY Bandage MINI Dress | Buy It Now - $378.00 }

Be Still.

2011-01-08T01:31:00.004-05:00

eBay Lovelies!

2011-01-08T00:19:00.003-05:00

Hi I am Ja, and I am addicted to eBay. An addiction that I do not want to be cured from. I eBay EVERYTHING. If I want to buy a goose down pillow, I check eBay first. A new wallet, eBay...work out shoes, eBay. You catch the drift right? I have had quite a few people ask me how to search for rare vintage finds on eBay. I don't really know or even think I want try to figure out the method to my madness but we can certainly go "window shopping" together. Here are some items on eBay that make me swoon. Enjoy!

1. Vtg Black Batwing Open Back Dress | $43 {1d 7h 23m}
2. Vtg Pastel Pink Beaded Pleat Dress | $11.50 {5d 22h 0m left}
3. Vtg Black Leather High Waist Pants | $92.00 {Buy it now}
4. Vtg Red Chiffon Halter Polka Dot Dress | $132.00 {Buy it now}

Don't Walk, Run

2011-01-07T11:31:00.005-05:00

Neimanmarcus.com is selling a size 38.5 Christian Louboutin Suede Metallic-Square Pump for only $397. At first I thought my eyes were deceiving me. Too bad I am not a size 8.

On my hiatus

2011-01-05T00:15:00.009-05:00

vintage dress: jaja vintage | shoes: aldo | belt: urban outfitters | earrings: random boutique from little 5 pts in atlanta

some of the things I did while I was not tending to my blog

i hosted a bridal shower, planned birthday parties, and celebrated almost turning 30. the beau took me to NC for my birthday. i toured the mint museum (which had an awesome, The Art of Affluence: Haute Couture and Luxury, exhibit) and visited the biltmore)

dress: from k-la boutique | purse: marc jacobs | shoes: BCBG | ring: vintage from eBay | scarf: old from forever 21

{ http://www.andrewthomasclifton.com/ }

but most importantly my bff, girl, homie got married! hopefully soon with her permission, i can post more pics from the wedding. trust you will NOT be disappointed!

I am a fiend for good music

2011-01-04T23:54:00.003-05:00

I am pretty sure that both albums will be on heavy rotation. Too bad that they are both crazies.

Happy New Year

2011-01-04T01:33:00.005-05:00

My New Year's Resolution....stop ~~blogging~~ & start content marketing. I hope you don't mind coming along for the ride!

Some Big News Coming Up

2010-12-14T17:19:00.005-05:00

Hey world...who still stops by this blog? I am really sorry for neglecting this site but I have good reasons. Like really really good reasons other than life taking over. Man, I have so much to blog about and don't know where to start. From business endeavors to weddings to my future to my shopping addictions. Please stay tuned! I am so excited, so please join me on this journey! Plus be on the look out for some major changes to sites layout.

- ciao -

Daily Birthday Lusts

2010-10-22T12:18:00.004-04:00

Heller! My birthday is coming up in 18 days...and I have A LOT of wants. So let's see how this works. 18 days of daily posting. Starting with this suede lace-up wedge boots from Minimarket. Love love love!

Busy busy busy

2010-10-11T22:33:00.004-04:00

I am so sorry to those who still follow my blog for neglected my blog but I have been SO busy with life, work, and helping my ~~best friend~~ sister plan her wedding! This wedding process has brought me closer to a lot of really important people and for that I am grateful. I am extremely happy for my babe! If she lets me, I will post the wedding pictures when we get them. (The wedding is in November!!!) Plus I have some really exciting news when things slow down. I am getting closer and closer to my dream of being a business owner and it feels great!

With that being said, I want these shoes BAD! Who cares if its a couple of seasons old...I still want them.

With love,

Jaja

I am going to die...Christian Louboutin is coming to Outnet!

2010-09-08T00:07:00.007-04:00

Mark you calendars ladies! Coming Sept. 15th...this has come at a horrible time. I do not NEED to spend any money but can I miss this opportunity? Argh...decisions decisions!

Click pic for more details.

{photo via outnet.com}

Just random likes & thoughts

2010-08-19T00:42:00.008-04:00

{photo via google & eBay via bustownmodern}

1. I play with my hair entirely too much...thus I love salon days when my stylist shampoos my hair. No matter how juicy our salon "celebrity gossip" gets I fall asleep within minutes! There is nothing like a deep conditioner and a scalp massage. Atl ladies; if you are ever looking for a great stylist hit up Nelda's in the Omni Hotel and ask for Renee. She will not disappoint!

2. Dinner parties...I love them. Can't wait to get married b/c I plan on having tons of dinner parties.

3. I haven't bought anything on eBay (for myself) in a few months. I am about to have a relapse.

Lean not on your own understanding...

2010-08-17T10:42:00.008-04:00

I need a vase like this in my life.

Yesterday was a hard day; filled with a lot of self pity, confusion, and asking God why. I received confirmation that my job is laying off 15 associates. Yesterday, God let me have moment - my temper tantrum. Today, I listened. He didn't speak upon the possibility of being unemployed or what my next move is. I read the book of Samuel, to get a grasp of the life of David. I don't know what tomorrow holds nor do I have the "answer" to this situation but I am closer to "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding." (Pro 3:5; Niv)

With that being said, I cannot promise updates around the clock but I will try to post ever so often. I off to enjoy my much needed day off. I plan on buying some flowers and indulging in some ice cream then kill myself at the gym (I know right oxymoron).

{photo via Shana Rae @ Flickr Junessa.Rendon}

How to Make a Baby

2010-07-30T10:28:00.001-04:00

The cutest video ever.

How to Make a Baby from Cassidy Curtis on Vimeo.

Happy Friday!!!

The sweetest revenge

2010-07-27T22:21:00.007-04:00

Sometimes the best revenge is time and silence. I am a firm believer in NOT getting people back. There are just principles in life that have been around for centuries. Whether you want to call it karma or divine intervention but what you do to others will always come back to either bite you or save you.

Lol, at the valet guy checking out what "The Nightmare" discarded. Girl werk!

Like Niecy Nash said, "... go on the breakup diet." "...drink champagne with your girlfriends but don't give up on love." Plus making sure you look your best while the scumbag is frockling around the beach with his man titties doesn't hurt!

{photo via theybf.com}

If it sounds too good to be true most likely...

2010-07-27T21:53:00.006-04:00

...it's too good to be true.

I find the humor in sites offering a pair of CLs for $200-300 and women think that these sites are legit! It's sad that there are women that fall for sites like this. Is it possibly to buy a pair of CLs at a discounted rate? Yes! If you are patient and an internet junkie; just stalk Barney's, NM, Saks, and BG during the major sale seasons (end of June and December) and I guarantee you can score a pair of CLs for approximately $300 to $600. Also, check out purseblog.com or thefashionspot.com they usually have really good leads. Do your homework ladies or just create a shoe savings account. I would rather do it the old fashion way. Go into a NM store and get up close and personal with the shoe that I will be spending loads of mula on. #imjustsaying

Happy Friday

2010-07-16T17:10:00.005-04:00

SJP in Brian Atwood pumps seen on RCFA

Oh Savannah

2010-07-13T00:28:00.008-04:00

So over the 4th of July weekend, I went on my annual trip to Savannah. I can never get tired of this city. The city is filled with historical detail; from the willow trees to the brownstone homes to horse carriages. Every time I come, I always tell the beau that we need to get married in this city (it means a lot to us). And of course, his reply is "whatever you want." Guys are silly. We stayed mostly in the downtown are but did manage to venture to Tybee Island. Sorry, did not snap enough pictures...still try to find the best setting on stupid camera. I even spotted a bride and it was quite difficult to snap a decent picture while my body was half way out of the car.

Forsyth Park is a popular place for weddings...you can see why, right?

The lovely fountain!!!

I loved the homes and seeing the U.S. flag EVERY WHRERE made me smile.

You cannot see clearly but if you look closely, you will see a bride & groom that was crossing the street. I know they thought I was crazy but oh well!

Tybee Island

Solange is fierce....

2010-07-01T00:44:00.008-04:00

Chic is fierce.

A Perfect Collaboration

2010-06-22T00:23:00.006-04:00

During my blogging hiatus, I missed the chance to share a match made in wedding heaven. It is currently wedding season; so imagine my excitement when one of my two favorite brands in the fashion and wedding world decided to collaborate. Yes! Thread Social is designing a collection of bridesmaid dresses for Priscilla of Boston. Remember the days when bridesmaid dresses were poufy, frilly, and tacking. Hopefully that will be a thing of the past.

Sheer Genius

2010-06-21T02:36:00.009-04:00

This is why I love vintage clothes. One of kind that you cannot find anywhere. I am in love with this sheer green maxi dress. The sale still has 18 hours left in the bid and it is currently going for $81.

View eBay Auction click here

{img via sisters of the black moon}

Still Here....

2010-06-17T02:45:00.005-04:00

So, do I still have people reading my blog? I am terrible for not updating my blog in so long. I don't really have any good excuses other than I am bored with the lack of content on my blog. I have a few different directions that I want to take it. But just wanted to say I have not completely deserted my blog. I will say, I have been in an eBay frenzy and can't wait till I post some of my new buys. Until then, take a look at how insanely dope (do people still say use that word) this dress is. If I had $100 to waste, she would be mine.

For Good Measure

2010-05-10T23:26:00.004-04:00

I had to post these prom pictures of my baby, my little sister. She looked absolutely fab! A young fashionista in the making!

We went to NM Last Call and scored this great find. Would you believe me when I say it was House of Dereon? I know...I said the same thing when I saw the tag. I was planning a friend's 30the birthday party and both events were on the same day. We were going to go to MAC but ran out of time and I ended up doing her makeup. I was so proud of myself b/c it came out wonderful.

Dress: House of Dereon / Heels: Zara / Earrings: KJL / Clutch: Vintage, mom's closet

Her handsome arm candy.

Pretty Pink Box

2010-05-10T23:07:00.003-04:00

I have the bestest (I know) friends in the world. One of my gf's gifted this big face Betsey Johnson watch. I love big face watches and ever since my Anne Klein watch was stolen, I've had a big face watch on my wish list. Not really a pink person but I love it as an accessory.

My eBay Treasure

2010-05-10T22:51:00.002-04:00

Say hello to my very first "true vintage dress" from eBay and she is a beaute. This 80's dress is perfectly draped mixed with shoulder pads and a deep v-neck that oozes sexiness. And to top it off it was only $10 including shipping! I am hooked!

J Crew Jewelry Collection

2010-04-21T12:16:00.006-04:00

If I could, I would have all of them in my jewelry chest. A girl can dream right? Wishful thinking at its best. *sigh*

R.I.P. Dorothy Irene Height

2010-04-20T22:53:00.002-04:00

Thank you for what you did for our country. May her soul rest in perfect peace.

{Photo via google.com}

How did I miss this?

2010-04-20T22:02:00.004-04:00

Dang...and to think I was done shopping. Lol.

New Purchases

2010-04-20T11:52:00.006-04:00

I returned the sandals I purchased from Charlotte Russe after winning these beauties on eBay. Antik Batik "Langoa" sandals. I also purchased these Kenneth Jay Lane earings from The Outnet in hopes of scoring an incredible deal from their 1 year old sale...but I shall digress. I love how the sandals and earrings match perfectly. I will be pairing these two items a lot this summer.

Good things come in small packages

2010-04-18T00:13:00.003-04:00

How many took advantage of Sephora's 15% off sale? I know I did. I have not been wearing makeup like I used to (well foundation) for a while. I was wearing MAC Studio Fix but it caused me to break out, so I stopped. I have heard so many good things about MUFE (Make Up For Ever), so I decided to try it out. I tried out their HD line at the store and I must say I was instantly impressed! I stuck to my budget and simply bought essentials, so I am very proud of myself!

Video: Fistful of Tears

2010-04-15T06:57:00.003-04:00

Favorite song off Black Summer's Night.

SimpleHuman: Bath Time

2010-04-14T08:19:00.004-04:00

I just discovered Simple Human and I am in love. With a tub like this; my skin would turn into a prune because I would never want to come out. Oui! Check out their other products...

{photo via simplehuman.com}

Recent Purchases: Summer Bound

2010-04-13T15:13:00.005-04:00

I just came back from visiting my girlfriend who lives in Chesapeake, VA. It is amazing how quickly I can go through some sandals. My staple sandals from last year are all broken; which is incredibly annoying. This is the reason why I detest cheap shoes. While they are cute, 3 to 4 months wear and tear is not enough for me. I have been stawking eBay to see if I can score a good pair of Dolce Vita's or a like brand. Because I was in need of some sandals, I decided to go to the mall because I could not wait an auction to end let alone, for the seller to ship a pair of shoes. I stopped by Aldo and Zara. I was highly annoyed and I repeat highly annoyed that Aldo has the audacity to sell sandals for $60 to $70. What do I look like? If I am patient enough, I can score a pair of Michael Kors, DV's, or shoot even a nice pair of Matt Bernson's for the same price or less. This is why I do not like buying sandals during their peak season; they are extremely overpriced. I stopped by Charlotte Russe and bought 2 pairs of sandals for less than the price of one sandal from Aldo's.

My dad just came back from Nigeria and he was kind enough to get Daisy by Marc Jacobs for me. Every time he goes on a business trip, he surprises all of his girls with perfume. He got my mother Chloé Eau de Parfum Spray. I am green with envy. Good job dad!!!

Coca-Cola and Karl Lagerfeld Team Up

2010-04-12T19:56:00.004-04:00

Yeah...the same thing I thought when I saw the headline on one of the most informative Fashion Blogs, Nitrolicious. I was like no way...but then I remembered that Roberto Cavalli teamed up with the Coca-Cola Light also. But the question is, is it worth $81?! MAN...I am tempted because I absolutely love the brand.

Photos via nitrolicious.com

Clogs...

2010-04-05T12:26:00.003-04:00

This is one trend that I doubt I will participate in. That is all.

*shudders*

{photo via Google.com}

Whatever happened to Jean Grae

2010-04-02T11:33:00.003-04:00

While on Facebook the other day, I nearly wanted to gauge my eyes when I saw a status that said, Trina vs. Nicki Minaj. I cannot support artist that are not "true." It made me wonder what ever happened to Jean Grae. That woman went h.a.r.d. If you want to talk about true mcing, you have to first write your own rhymes.

Ok, I am done.

Don't know who Jean Grae is...get to know her here

{photos via google.com}

Don't Break My Heart...

2010-04-02T11:24:00.006-04:00

...was the song that I first heard from B.o.B., Mr. Bobby Ray. The Eastside (Atlanta) native then came out with the instant hit, "Nothin On You." I just finished downloading a whole array of his mixtapes and added them to my workout playlist. The guy is dope and plus you know I have to support my fellow Atlantans.

Oh yeah....The Adventures of Bobby Ray drops on April 27th. Get it!

{photo via bobatl.com}

Easter Sunday Chic

2010-03-29T19:51:00.008-04:00

When I was younger, Easter Sunday was a big deal. Mom would make sure I got a new dress, new shoes with accessories and spent countless hours at the hair salon. Now that I am older, I don't really follow the tradition. However, I may this year. I was browsing eBay to see if I could score a brocade dress (I think I found her). Which led me to search this trend. I fell in love with this Eva Franco dress.

While, it may not be my style to wear to church this Karen Walker dress is so my style! Loves it!

Karen Walker Brocade Dress | Alexis Bittar Vendome Coral & Pearl Necklace| Giuseppe Zanotti elephant grey printed | Jessica Jensen Classic Envelope Clutch

Naomi Campel in Vogue Russia April '10

2010-03-29T02:15:00.003-04:00

And this woman is turning 40? Not fair!

{photo via fashiongonerogue}

All Things Girly

2010-03-28T23:57:00.007-04:00

{photos via flickr & loany.com}

I can't get over....

2010-03-23T07:57:00.005-04:00

...these two Oscar looks. It's funny that a lot of blogs did not give these ladies the justice they deserved on the best dressed list. I absolutely loved these looks! Gabrielle Union glowed in this yellow Rachel Ray number. I loved her lighter hair color and that she paired the dress with a brown clutch. When you hear Zoe Kravitz, you think of grunge and unkempt. I was pleasantly surprised how polished she looked in this Alexis Mabille Haute Couture dress. Good job ladies!

{photos via zimbio.com}

Welcome Spring

2010-03-22T17:17:00.003-04:00

In honor of Springs arrival...I am in anticipation to throw a tea party!

My high afternoon tea party will consist of:

1. Close friends decked in floral prints and neutral minimalist frocks.
2. An array of cookies, lollicakes, macaroons, and cupcakes. Yum!
3. Fancy antique teacups with a matching silver plated antique teapot.
4. Iced chilled champagne and a bottle of Pinot Grigio.
5. The table adorned with hydrangeas and pastel colored roses in lovely tin vases.

{photos via marthastewart.com | guestofaguest.com | dianasproveri.com | flickr.com | google.com}

When She Gets It Right...

2010-03-20T00:58:00.003-04:00

I am smitten over these Fendi Boots.

She later changed into "The Catastrophe" dress by Sass & Bide.

{photos via kellyrowlandweb.com}

Disorganized Mess

2010-03-19T19:08:00.008-04:00

One of my NY resolutions was to become more organized...more organized with my time and my life. It's funny, overall I am really an organized person but at times my laziness creeps in and causes chaos. I am spring cleaning and trying to reorganize EVERYTHING. The older I get, the less things I want around me. I used to be the WORSE pack rat. The worse. My motto was more, more, more. Now, I would rather get quality items every once in a while than just buy things just to have them.

The beau bought me a beautiful 8 drawer jewelry chest for Valentines Day last year. I hung my head in shame when I saw these organized chests. I drop my jewelry and keep it moving.

Do you see how I take care of my Chanel earrings? Shame!

{img via lonnymag.com}

Random...

2010-03-19T10:42:00.002-04:00

Whenever you're down, roses sure know how to do the trick. I was looking through my Flickr account and smiled when I saw these beauties. I think I will pick up some flowers when I get off work.

Anna Dello Russo's Apartment

2010-03-06T04:20:00.007-05:00

I am in awe. The Italian Editor-at-Large for Vogue Nippon gave Tommy Ton the privilege to capture these insanely photos inside of her apartment.

"...visit both of her apartments in Milan, one next to the other but one specifically meant to host her extraordinary clothing archive."

click to enlarge photo

{photos via jak&jil}

Trader Joe's Grocery Haul

2010-03-01T16:40:00.005-05:00

My Spring Tulips from Trader Joe's.

Today marks the beginning of the beau and my "no soda/sweet tea/fries" for 5 months challenge. The beau is addicted to soda and I am addicted French Fries. So we said, starting March 1st, we would go on a no fries, sweet tea, or soda challenge until August. I am not really a soda drinker but I cannot get enough of sweet iced tea or fries. I have been preparing for this day, by watching loads of Youtube videos of healthy meal ideas. I want to not only complete this challenge but embark on a lifestyle change. This is a new realm for me. I never used to count calories or even look at the nutritional guide printed on food items. I am going to try to blog about my experiences in hopes of getting some support and/or motivate others to do the same!

My Food Goals
1. Go to TJ's every 2 weeks.
2. Eat breakfast every day.
3. Create a M-F meal plan.
4. Sat. & Sun. will be my free days but not overdoing it.

TJ Grocery Haul
Caramel Popcorn, Organic Brown Rice, Tomato Soup, Fresh Red Salsa, Laughing Cow Light, Potato Chips, Turkey Pepperoni, Mushrooms, Pita Chips, Shredded Cheese, Frozen Sweet Corn, Frozen Pepper Blend, Potato Medley, Whole Wheat Tortilla, Tomato Basil Hummus Dip, Pre-Mix Salad, Veggie Egg Rolls, Vanilla Yogurt, Granola Cereal, French Toast, Turkey Bacon, Banana, Spring Tulips.

*updated*
I just tried the Laughing Cow Swiss cheese spread with some pita crackers. Yum, yum, yum! I did not exercise today. Today, is practically an off day for me. I lazied around the house until noon. By the time I left the house, I was starving. I got a smoothie from Smoothie King (mango, orange and something else...forgot what it was). Afterward, I went to TJ and then went on hunt to find some new vintage stores. I ate at the Sweet Lime in Little 5 Points. I ordered the Salmon Skin and Shrimp Nigiri. For dinner, I mixed the vanilla granola cereal that I bought from Trader Joe's with some Honey Bunches of Oats. I was too hungry to cook. So that will be dinner. I ate it with banana. If I get hungry later, I will have some fruit.

eBay Sunday: Must Buys

2010-02-28T23:07:00.004-05:00

I have had many people ask me how do I find so many unique items on eBay...the answer is simple. Search, search, search. Whatever item you see out; in mags, internet, or stores...you can probably find it on eBay. I will try to post different auctions that I will not participate in (Of course...lol) but are great buys.

Today, I was searching for Ethnic prints...which I got the ethnic idea from my next post. I came upon this lovely ethnic printed backless jumpsuit. So far there are no bids and it currently going for $24.95. Add a solid belt to break up the print with some fabulous shoes and you are good to go!

(click on photo to view auction)

The Sartorialist : Tying a Scarf

2010-02-28T22:04:00.004-05:00

I am not sure what I love more...the scarf or the way the scarf is tied.

I love an impeccably dressed man.

photo & vid via the sartorialist.blogspot.com

Essie & OPI Haul

2010-02-20T13:51:00.003-05:00

Yesterday, I went on a nail polish shopping spree. OPI cracks me up with the names of their nail polishes. I cannot wait to go back and get some more. Now that I have found a place where I can get discounted nail supplies....I am now an addict.

Base Coat; Station, Rock Candy; Essie, Canyon Coral; Essie, Sole Mate; Essie, Midnight Cami; Essie, Canberra't Without You; OPI, You Don't Know Jacques!; OPI, Top Coat; Station

Rock Candy; Essie, Canyon Coral; Essie, Sole Mate; Essie, Midnight Cami; Essie

Canberra't Without You; OPI, You Don't Know Jacques!; OPI,

*sorry in advance for the crappy cell phone pics...I have yet again lost another camera, but this time the newest camera that I bought myself for my birthday. 3 cameras in 4 years is ridiculous. :(*

Wanted List: Elizabeth & James

2010-02-18T00:04:00.009-05:00

Oh my...a girl can dream right?

Elizabeth & James Fete Dress with Pierre Hardy Transparent Sandals | Elizabeth & James Luna Dress with Be&D Platform Sandals

UPDATE:
OMG...OMG...I went to NM Last Call yesterday looking for some spring heels (didn't get anything) and guess what I saw? No seriously guess. They had the E&J Luna Dress in the Pale Rouge. AND guess what it was going for $210! AHHHH. It is still priced for $370 on Shopbop. So why didn't I get it? My conscience aka the BF. :( I think that will be a buy that I might regret not getting.

Bebe Kardashian Line - FAIL

2010-02-17T18:02:00.008-05:00

Ok, I will be the first one to admit that I was addicted to Bebe when I was younger and when I didn't know any better. But seriously, I am not paying $80-250 for this mess. You cannot be serious. I don't know every time I think of Bebe, Arden B, or Guess, I cringe. They are way too gaudy for my test. It's an expensive Forever 21. But I will give it to them for their marketing strategy. The Kardashians are a "hot commodity", so they might as well capitalize while the frenzy. I heard the line is almost sold out. But then again when you think of Bebe you think of the Kardashians. Like one of my girlfriend's love to say, HOT MESS!

HILARIOUS!

{photos via courture.com & coutureinthecity.com}

NYFW: Korto Momulu

2010-02-17T17:07:00.014-05:00

I am sure you guys remember Korto Momolu who was the first runner up on Project Runway season 5. I was excited to see that her collection...her fall collection has my name written all over it! The lovely fall colors, flowy maxi dresses and skirts with a mix of statement jewelry had me drooling!

Click to enlarge picture.

{photos via coutorture.com}

Brad vs Taylor

2010-02-17T10:57:00.005-05:00

Taylor and Brad from the Rachel Zoe Project team up to dress each other. It was a cute idea to see how they would dress each other. Taylor has since left to pursue her dream, which I applaud her but I loved them together on the show. The styling and comments below.

Brad gets his hands on Taylor.
"Taylor has great legs and she's not afraid to show them. She usually dresses in black, which is why I went with super-bright, tropical colors."ans, boots by Maison Martin Margiela and vintage bandana from Screaming Mimi's.

Taylor has her way with Brad.
"Brad is always extremely put-together so I thought it would be nice to see him in something a little edgy, punk... downtown, even!"

Taylor does Taylor.
"I love anything fluorescent. I would say my style is very ladies who lunch with an edge."

Brad does Brad.
"I would define my personal style as preppy-Gatsby-chic. I chose the look because I love the color, and the cream edging gives it that extra pop."

{excerpts and photos via papermag.com}

Lee Alexander McQueen

2010-02-11T11:37:00.001-05:00

R.I.P

Such a tragic loss.

i.am.in.love.

2010-02-11T02:00:00.003-05:00

This is definitely going on my Spring's Most Wanted list.

Buy them here.

VDay

2010-02-09T09:35:00.002-05:00

I can't wait to see this movie.

That is all.

Congrats to Heather Headley

2010-02-08T17:39:00.002-05:00

This post is very late but a big congrats to Ms. Heather Headley for winning a Grammy for Best Contemporary R&B Gospel Album. Pick up this album if you like gospel...trust you will not stop listening!

Rude Boy

2010-02-08T17:31:00.001-05:00

Can't wait to see this vid.

{photos via necolebitchie.com}

Kristin Cavallari Models Asos

2010-02-04T21:40:00.003-05:00

Can't deny the girl can werk!

Random Pic

2010-02-01T21:59:00.002-05:00

A case of serious makeup envy!!!

{img via zimbio}

This is the Lil Kim I miss...

2010-02-01T19:46:00.003-05:00

Oh Kim, why why why?! Queen B.

{photos via necolebitchie.com}

Kanye and Amber are Furdiculous

2010-01-21T13:58:00.007-05:00

I don't like Peta but this is a bit much. There is nothing fashionable about this look at all. It screams I have too much money and I want the world to see. To think that Amber was becoming my girl crush. Tisk tisk.

{image via necolebitchie.com}

Hells Yeah...

2010-01-18T00:00:00.009-05:00

I cannot wait to get home and comb through all the lovely fashion flicks from The Art of Elysium, The Critic’s Choice, and Golden Globe Awards. The pictures I briefly scanned were so divine! 2010 looks like it will be a fierce year in the fashion world!!!

{photo via allthingschill.com}

The Real One...

2010-01-17T20:00:00.003-05:00

He's worth the wait...

ffffound

Reliable Charities - Haiti Relief

2010-01-17T16:19:00.005-05:00

Hey guys, by now I am sure everyone has heard about the earthquake that hit Haiti. Unfortunately we need to be weary about scams and phony organizations that pray on taking advantage of people during times like this. I have researched and have listed 5 trusted organizations. I have included direct links if you want to donate money online. If you happen to donate to a different organization please make sure you do your research. For starters, check their charity review on BBB. Let's be our brothers keeper.

Here are direct links to donate to any one of these great organizations!!!

1. Doctors Without Borders
2. Direct Relief International
3. CARE
4. Oxfam America
5. Unicef USA

{photo via http://doctorswithoutborders.org/}

My Heart Just Skipped A Beat....

2010-01-11T10:03:00.004-05:00

Peta please don't crucify me because I am in L.O.V.E.

Buy here

Do You Flip Fold?

2010-01-08T02:15:00.004-05:00

I have been seeing this infomercial for a while but after recently trying to help sort the beau's laundry, I am really considering in getting this. Check the funny vid below.

Jeffrey Campbell Clinic Wedges

2010-01-07T23:13:00.011-05:00

JC is outdoing themselves. These babies would have made Christmas grand but I guess 2 months too late.

P.U.S.H.

2010-01-07T20:34:00.002-05:00

It's funny that a week into the new year, I am faced with unimaginable difficulties. I will laugh instead of cry. I am done with the "woe is me" mentality. I look at situations for what it's worth. To build character, gain as life learned lessons, and remind me that God is still GOD! I strongly believe that 2010 will be a good year. Not because it will be a walk in the park but because I will no longer act as a child in challenging situations. My boots are strapped and I am ready.

Word of encourage for anyone that is going through times of difficulties: I DARE YOU NOT TO GIVE UP. Despite your circumstance, enjoy life. There are no dress rehearsals or take backs. Be grateful for what life brings today because God makes no mistakes. See you guys at the top!

Why I love Kanye

2010-01-05T22:31:00.011-05:00

He slays me.

Kanye modeling for A Bathing Ape Spring 2010 Collection

click photo to enlarge.

{photos via hypebeast.com}

2010 Goals: Having Fun

2010-01-05T18:37:00.005-05:00

This year I am determined to enjoy this life to the fullest. Some of my closet girlfriends have moved away and I refuse to let the distance get in between our relationships. 2010 will be year filled with great memories, good company, and delightful cuisines. Here are some things I plan on doing this year:

1. The Great Urban Race - I heard about this a few years ago and said I wanted to do it but never have. Basically, the Urban Race is like the Amazing Race. You are in a team of two completing 12 tasks within your city and digitally documenting the adventure. Check to see if they have it in your city by clicking here.
2. Road Trip / Traveling - Charlotte, Virginia, New York, New Mexico here I come!
3. Contemporary Dance Lessons
4. Cooking Classes - Especially for Vday. I want to have more dinner parties, so the best way to become the perfect hostess is to be able to wow my friends by taking some different types of cooking class. I really want to take this sushi class they have in Atlanta.
5. Volunteer - I keep saying I will do this but seriously this year I want to find an organization that I am passionate about, especially something geared to young teenage girls.
6. Essence Festival
7. 2010 World Cup - I will be going to the Brewhouse Cafe regularly this summer to watch the World Cup. Go Nigeria!!!

What are some things you want to do this year? Jump out of an airplane, go on a cruise, or take pottery classes? Please do share!

{Photos via Google}

2010 Goals: Hair

2010-01-03T02:45:00.003-05:00

Dear 2010,

Please be gentle on me unlike your predecessor (2009). Word on the street, is that you are merely for wishful thinking but I would like to think otherwise. I have carefully planned and awaited your arrival. My list is simple yet complex, in it's own right. One of the few things I ask for this year, is fabulous hair, which is not much. Tracee Ellis and Corrine Bailey Rae have mastered the art of fabulous natural hair, so I would like to follow in their footsteps. Please.

Signed,

Tired and confused natural hair member of almost 3 yrs.

2009 Review: My Favorite Rihanna Looks

2010-01-02T12:14:00.003-05:00

2009 filled with Rihanna moments, both in the fashion world and her personal life. It seems she used the craziness to catapult herself to a new dynamic fashion wise. There have been some fashion choices that made me scratch my head but one thing we can all agree upon, she definitely was not boring. It was hard to come up with only 10 (in no particular order, of course) looks that I loved but here they go:

One of the things that I love about Rihanna is her accessories and makeup!

2009 Review: My Favorite Designer's Personal Style

2010-01-01T16:08:00.005-05:00

These designers did not only catch my attention on the runway with their designs but viewing their personal style out and about the city. Some of my favorite looks below:

Stella McCartney

Rachel Roy

A Year In Review: 2009

2009-12-30T00:54:00.010-05:00

Wow, it is almost 2010. Can you believe it? Remember when people thought the world was coming to an end back in 1999?! Now 10 years later. The last few weeks of the year, I usually tend to draw back from civilization and take a survey on my on life. I reflect on where I am, where I was, and where I want to be. This has definitely been a challenging year. I can honestly say that growing up is one of the hardest things to do. Truly. I feel like I have shed enough tears and gone through enough agony. It's funny how we always say the next year "will be your year", but I honestly feel like 2010 is going to be a good year.

I started my blog on January 9, 2009. So in a few days, my blog will be 1 years old. So you know what that means....a giveaway!!! Not sure what it will be...but I will come up with something. One of my first blog posts was a list of things I wanted to accomplish in '09. So let's check them out and see how bad I did:

27 Things to Accomplish in '09
1. ~~Go to church consistently and get my life right with Mr. G-O-D~~
Definitely room for improvement but feeling really good about where our relationship is going!
2. ~~Spend more time with Mr. Man (my son)~~
I don't like to air my personal life on my blog but one of little man's wishes came true this year. Thank God.
3. ~~Be a better listener and friend to my girlfriends~~
Again room for improvement but I definitely like where this is going!
4. Create a budget and stick with it & pay off 75% of my debt
I did better in regards to spending...I hardly bought stuff for myself this year but still in debt. Which sucks.
5. LOSE WEIGHT
I gained instead of lost...ha!
6. ~~Finish organizing my room & closet~~
Almost done!!!
7. ~~Create an emergency fund ($1000 to start)~~
I accomplished this task then spent it. Bad girl.
8. GO BACK TO SCHOOL
No comment.
9. Get a promotion or a 2nd job/hustle (whichever comes first)
Almost started but I didn't follow through
10. Travel (D.C to start and then Cali)
I definitely plan on traveling in '10.
11. ~~Get more grown women clothes~~
This sounds so juvenile...but definitely improving.
12. ~~Cook more~~
Spending more time with the beau has caused me to cook more. I would love to take some culinary classes. Cooking is fun when it's not a chore.
13. Volunteer more
Negative.
14. Buy a CHI and fix my own hair (grow hair to shoulder length)
Hair has grown a lot but no new iron yet.
15. Take more pictures / buy a better camera
Bought a new camera but haven't taken a lot of pictures.
16. ~~Don't go 2 to 3 days without blogging. YAY!~~
Accomplished.
17. Look into refinancing my car
Negative.
18. Run at least 2 5ks this year
Negative.
19. Get a few more tats and piercings (i know kinda silly right-eh)
Negative.
20. ~~Create more memories with the beau~~
Accomplished.
21. Learn to bake
22. Floss and brush before going to bed
Negative.
23. Drink more water
I usually drink a lot of water but this year, I have been addicted to soda. I never used to drink soda. I need to get this under control.
24. Purchase really nice sheets and goose down comforter
Negative.
25. Keep up with beauty regimen and wear makeup more often
Negative.
26. Buy studded earrings
Negative.
27. ~~Purchase another staple handbag on sale of course.~~
Accomplished.

After Christmas Sales

2009-12-24T00:28:00.005-05:00

...and it's not even Christmas yet.

Barneys

My favorite boutique in Atlanta, K-LA

Note to self, buy everyone gift cards next year, so they can take advantage of the sea of multiple sales that take place after Christmas eacy year.

I haven't been in the Christmas mood. I slacked off and bought crappy gifts. I feel horrible. I don't know why. I hate the underline pressures of gifting and buying presents have taken away the real meaning of Christmas. I want to get away from buying people gifts on this holiday. I feel it's a time to take a personal inventory and devote your spare time in volunteering....but I digress.

*The best time to get a good deal for Christian 's, shoot any major designer shoe for that matter, is after Christmas. Can you believe that if you shop wisely you can get a pair of CLs for around $300?! I told myself the same thing this time last year I would buy a pair but of course that's not happening. BUT next year, Mr. CL you will be mine.*

Forever Young

2009-12-22T17:41:00.003-05:00

Jay Z ft. Mr. Hudson - Forever Young

May the best of your today's be the worst of your tomorrows!

His & Her

2009-12-20T20:32:00.003-05:00

I simply adore this His & Her Closet.

{photo via desiretoinspire.net}

Mike & Chris for less than $99

2009-12-15T21:15:00.003-05:00

I know you've heard of Gilt & Hautelook but what about Reverse? Well Reverse is having a sales event for Mike & Chris and all of the items are under $99! I am on a shopping restriction...so please someone take advantage of this sale. Sign up here!

{photos via reverse.com / modified by itjusta.blogspot.com}

Out & About: Kelly Rowland at Grey Goose Character & Cocktails Winter Fundraiser

2009-12-14T11:18:00.007-05:00

YES! This is exactly what I said out loud when I saw these pictures at Red Carpet Fashion Awards. Ok, well maybe not out loud but Kelly looks great! She is really growing to her own oversees. I love love love her in this Basil Soda Fall 2009 Couture gown . Her skin is just glowing!

{photos via lipstickalley & blogxilla}

Keeping Up with 'Dashians

2009-12-14T03:31:00.008-05:00

Ssshhhh...this show is my guilty pleasure. I just finished watching the premiere of Keeping up with the Kardashians. Not so much because of Kim (can't stand when she is whining) but I cannot get enough of Khloe and Kris arguing. I am glad the rest of the family are getting more air time. Khloe is still by far my favorite sister.

Did anyone see the promo pic of the girls in lingerie??! Um, Kourtney I appreciate you embracing the pregnant sexiness but seriously, TMI! I am not posting it but you can go here to check it out here.

Random Photog

FIERCE!

{photos via officialkourtneyk & chictoochic}

Do You Think About Me?

2009-12-09T23:32:00.003-05:00

Here is the latest video from 50 Cent featuring Tamala Jones and of course Miss Vivica FOX! Now Viv, 50 made you look stupid during your short relationship ~~freakfest~~. He blew you off and now you're in his video as a crazy ex-girlfriend? Ah....Ok. 50 is a funny dude. The guy publically dogs his chics (Ciara/Vivica) and they keep coming back for more.

Did anyone else catch the comparison of Viv blowing up his building and his baby mama allegedly burning down his house?

Is it 2010 yet?

2009-12-09T21:39:00.005-05:00

Hey, 2010 can you hurry up already. Goodness!

{photo via google.com}

eBay Stalking: Azzedine Alaia

2009-12-09T14:10:00.006-05:00

I instantly fell in love with these work of art, called heels. To be honest, I am not familiar with the Azzedine Alaia, so you can tell I was on a Google frenzy. Thank goodness for Google. This Parisian designer had me drooling. I am forever in love. I will do a post later on the brand.

I would love to buy them but clearly cannot. They are originally $1,550 but they going for $249. STEAL. Run if you want them. Size 6.5

P.S. Click on the picture to view the Auction.

photos via ebay.com